We went to a friend of Puja's last night. They live in the suburbs about an hours drive from our place in a huge, very well designed house with a gorgeous backyard. They have 3 kids. Everytime we meet someone like this the difference between the kind of life we lead and the kind of life they lead becomes evident and stares blankly at us. Puja and I love the beautiful homes, the space and perks such as a basement home theatre with a 110 inch screen but we don't feel we can deal with the hour and a half commute every day each way or the fact that we will be so far away from everything that the city has to offer. Restaurants, shows, and the fireworks!